He'd also blame every relationship problem on me. One day in the spring, I was taking a shower, and when I stepped out, I realized that I really didn't want to date him anymore. So now we're just friends. This time was different and my decision to leave was sporadic — almost as if I had woke up one morning and my inner conscience said, "Kim, today you have to take control of your life. For example, I was taught that if you put your purse on the floor, you won't have any money. He had his mistress move in with them.
I was afraid of losing him because I was afraid I would never love anyone as much as I loved him.
I agree to receive email communications from beyondblue you can unsubscribe from this at a later date if you wish. This process might seem embarrassing but ultimately showing your emotions post-break up will help you grow. I like to call my story a do-over. Two broken people found a way to stand strong on their own and became whole individually, which led to a healthier, happier union.