The 'more' option on the sexual preferences menu on OKCupid has asexual, demisexual, heteroflexible, homesexual, lesbian, pansexual, queer, questioning and sapiosexual - that's a pretty full menu. People want to get to know you IRL, not in the world in your head where you get to be whatever you want to be. Usually means 'I've been on too many dates and you aren't worth the price of an appetiser and a drink'. Even when it comes to jobs and friends, you can only do so much work before you have to leave the rest up to the other person. Books can provide a great 'in' to chat to someone and find out their likes and dislikes.
Often, a friendly smile or a little bit of prolonged eye contact is enough for a man to feel confident to approach you.
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