We go days at a time without any contact at all. Sarah Jones. After my 30th birthday, I decided to take the opposite approach and go out of my way to leave my options wide open until the dude broached the subject of exclusivity. That was fine for a while, but as time went on and my needs in a partner evolved i. Search Search for: Who would promise exclusivity after knowing someone for that amount of time?
Was I going to ruin everything by making the wrong decision?
When and how should you bring up exclusivity?
Not every day is filled with hearts, bells, and whistles. After emailing with a bunch of losers online, she meets a guy whose profile knocks her socks off. It sucks when you hear nothing but crickets between dates. Then we can take it from there and see what we want to do, whether it makes sense to continue or not.